An Interview with a London Mistress

When the lines between pleasure, power, pain, and play start to blur, what unfolds is an experience not for the faint of heart.

Yep, that’s right -  today we‘re delving a little deeper into the forbidden realm of BDSM and domination, with none other than yours truly, Mistress Loren. 

As London's top mistress, known for my unparalleled expertise and commanding presence, I'm here to shed light on the mysteries behind domination. To help me answer some of the most frequently posed questions with the authority only a seasoned dominatrix can possess. I invited a fresh-faced newbie to interview me. Let's see if he can handle it, shall we? 

 

Good evening, Mistress Loren. Is it okay to call you that outside of work? 

Mistress Loren: Good evening to you, too! And yes, I’ll allow it. A London mistress's duties extend beyond the usual hours, and I'm constantly on the lookout for new subs to discipline.

 

Subs?

ML: Submissives.

 

[Laughs] Well then, it seems I need to be on my best behaviour!

ML: Oh yes. Absolutely. Identifying what makes a person tick and uncovering their deepest, guilt-ridden desires is a particular talent of mine.

 

Oh wow. And what might mine be?

ML: Are you doing the interview, or am I?

 

So then, let’s start with something simple. To all the newbies out there, can you please tell me what exactly a mistress is?

ML: Because you asked so nicely, yes, I can. A mistress is, in layman's terms, a female master… the dominant sexual partner. She’s the one in control, with her subjects yielding to her will, engaging in acts of domination and submission.

 

Wow. So, that means dressing in the whole leather and latex get-up?

ML: Not necessarily, but yes, leather and latex are important aspects of my wardrobe. Many of my clients adore seeing me all dressed up. However, I don’t wear it for them, I wear it for myself - it empowers me. Plus, I must admit, I do look rather good in it.

 

Can you tell me a little more about what’s involved in domination, Miss Loren?

ML: That’s Mistress Loren to you. 

 

Sorry. Can you tell me what’s involved in domination, Mistress Loren?

ML: That’s better. Well, domination is all about the exchange of power. I lead, and my submissive follows. As for the services I offer, well, where to start?

Strap-on play, chastity, feminisation, cock and ball torture, and bondage are just some of the fun services I enjoy indulging in, which I use to compose a session that's as unique as the subs I play with. 

It's not just about the physical side of things, though. Sure, they're important, but it's the psychological thrill, the push and pull of control and surrender, that makes domination so fun. And, if I may say so myself, I excel in this area.

 

Intriguing. And how long does a typical session last?

ML: A typical session can range anywhere from an hour to a full overnight affair. It really depends on what we're exploring together. 

Some scenes, like a simple bondage session, might be shorter, while more complex play or a deep dive into someone's psyche and limits can take longer. Besides, I always tailor the experience to fit the desires and boundaries of my submissives, and doing so can take some time.

 

So you would recommend a session longer than an hour to get the full experience?

ML:  The duration of the session is entirely your choice. How the session unfolds is entirely up to me.

 

I'm curious, what's the strangest request you've ever received?

ML: [Laughs] When it comes to BDSM, the term "strange" is, let’s say, quite subjective. What might seem outlandish and strange to one is completely normal to another. 

To answer your question, though, I approach every request with an open mind. Spanking, fisting, watersports - I do it all. However, I always maintain my role as the dominant… always. I never switch to a submissive role, as it's crucial for me to be in charge… the captain of the ship, so to speak. 

 

Sorry, did you say watersports? 

ML: I’ll tell you when you’re older. 

 

Could you delve a bit deeper into some of the services you mentioned?

ML: With pleasure. A huge favourite of mine is strap-on play. I love the power dynamics associated with this service and the breaking of conventional roles. Nothing shouts dominance like pegging a man from behind.

Chastity is another intriguing service, where control over one's most primal urges is surrendered to me. This often leads to an exploration of trust and desire, which only helps to deepen the connection between me and the client even more.

Feminisation is always good fun! It allows for the exploration of gender roles and identity, and often unlocks a level of vulnerability and self-discovery you don’t often find in men. It’s a breath of fresh air for strong women like myself! 

I also love bondage, flogging, cock and ball torture - you name it! If it’s about exploring limits, trust, and the intensity of sensation, both physical and psychological, then chances are I’m a fan.

 

Cock and ball torture? Sounds painful!

ML: Don’t knock it until you’ve tried it. 

 

Maybe later, which brings me to my next point. Safety and consent must be a huge part of what you do, right?

ML: Oh, of course! Absolutely. 

 

How do you ensure everything is consensual and safe?

ML: Well, before any session begins, I always have an in-depth discussion about a client’s boundaries, likes, dislikes, and safe words. Doing so ensures that while we may explore the edges of someone's limits, we never cross into non-consensual territory. Safety measures are always in place, especially for more physically intense activities like bondage or CBT.

 

What advice do you have for someone interested in exploring domination for the first time?

ML: I cannot stress this enough, but do your research. Understand what aspects of BDSM you're drawn to and why. When you're ready to reach out to a mistress like myself, communication is key. Be honest about your experience level, interests, and boundaries. 

Remember, there's no shame in being new - we all started somewhere. And last but not least, keep an open mind. The journey into the world of BDSM and fetish can be incredibly rewarding, and may just reveal things about yourself you never knew existed.

 

What do you find most rewarding about your work as a domination escort?

ML: The connections I form and the transformations I witness. 

 

Oh? Please elaborate.

ML: BDSM and domination aren't just about whips and chains. It’s also about the emotional and psychological journey we embark on together. To see someone explore their boundaries, embrace their desires, and grow in confidence is a profoundly rewarding and amazing thing to witness. 

Regardless of what the naysayers have to say about it, I believe BDSM has the power to heal, empower, and liberate, and being a facilitator of that process is a privilege.

 

Do you think people are becoming more accepting of BDSM and domination?

ML: BDSM is becoming more mainstream, thanks in part to media and the internet. As a result, people are becoming more open and curious about exploring their kinky desires. It's moving away from being seen as taboo and instead recognised as a valid and important aspect of human sexuality.

 

Do we have 50 Shades of Grey to thank for that?

ML: We don’t talk about that film here.

 

Noted. So, for those curious about exploring domination with you, Mistress Loren, how should they proceed?

ML: The first step is reaching out with respect and openness. I value communication highly, so a thoughtful message that includes your interests, experience level, and what you're hoping to explore is essential. From there, we'll have a discussion to ensure that there's a mutual understanding and that our interests align.

 

Thank you, Mistress Loren. Do you have any parting words for our readers?

ML: When it comes to BDSM, the only limitations are those of your imagination and the boundaries you set. That being said, approach it with an open mind, respect for your partner, and a willingness to learn, and you'll find experiences that are both exhilarating and deeply fulfilling.

 

Now, I believe you said something earlier about putting me in my place.

ML: Shush now.

 

Yes, ma'am.

ML: Good boy.